Home visits

One of the many important activities in Pina Palmera is the home follow-up visit. They are usually requested by a family member or a friend but sometimes by a concerned villager contacts a member of the staff with concerns.  The problems signalled can range from a little baby that is behind in his development to a child or an adult with an obvious disability. The visits are not quite as simple as driving to someone’s house, ringing the bell, and then proceeding with the inquiry and suggestions.

Somewhere in the distance is our destination house
Somewhere in the distance is our destination house
Physical and speech therapy are on the way!
Physical and speech therapy are on the way!

Many times the address is vague: “a brown house close to the small food store” when all houses are brown and there are at least 5 small food stores in the area. Numerous questions about the location are needed, in a village where so many people have the same first and last name and streets have no names or numbers.  Afterwards, the team members armed with paper and pencil on which they write and rewrite directions and suggestions regarding the address, start their quest. They walk uphill, downhill, through someone else’s yard, in the sun and dust, followed by various dogs, goats, chickens, and the occasional curious neighbour, arriving  at their destination after an unpredictable amount of time. I am always impressed by their perseverance and positive attitude and not least by the infinite patience with which they explain for the hundredth time who they are, what they do, and who they’re looking for.

After arriving  at the destination, introductions and explanations follow. The little boy we visited on this trip is an adorable 4 year old with cerebral palsy, cared for by one of his aunts (pregnant herself) as the mother works 12 hours/day for 6 days /week.

The house is one big room housing 3 adult women and 4 children, all of them working in some capacity to make ends meet (selling homemade food mainly); the men have either “separated” or are “working and not living here”. P1020317This little client is relatively neglected most of the time but otherwise healthy. He is very shy but soon responds to our efforts and turns out to be extremely smart and very knowledgeable for his age, with a lot of enthusiasm for the standing frame we have brought; overall he is starved for attention and stimulation.  With infinite patience, Sofia and Mariana (physical and speech therapists) involve the aunt and the other 2 older children in setting up the frame and some basic reaching and standing games that will help our little man develop his leg strength.

Setting up the standing frame
Setting up the standing frame

We are hoping that with repeated visits, the family will become more knowledgeable and less burdened by the care they need to provide. He has great potential and could possibly walk short distances with some help.

Wonderful independent standing and a lovely smile!
Wonderful independent standing and a lovely smile!

We had a tough time reaching this house  from the main road so it is not likely the boy will be taken to preschool but the therapists will return and try to find some way to eventually include him into the school system.

Our next visit involves a man with a brain injury following a blow to his head. He is now blind and unable to speak but making progress in his walking. Last month the team built a set of wooden parallel bars to help him walk in their absence as they can only visit every 2 weeks at best. Today we decided to increase the challenges and had him walking with our support and ultimately with just a little bit of hand guidance. I can’t begin to imagine how difficult it must be for a  blind, weak man to walk across a yard full of obstacles, on very uneven terrain, led by some strange women and constantly being asked to do “just a little more”.

Slowly but confidently!
Slowly but confidently!

This is just a small part of what is happening here and unfortunately words and pictures can’t capture the tremendous effort displayed by everyone involved in the visits. What most impresses me though, is the sense of satisfaction when, after a long day, everyone returns dusty and sweaty, talking about what they have accomplished and their many plans for the next visit. And you can be sure  it will happen, as long as they are wanted and asked to return…and as long as the car will cooperate!

The little car that could....drive uphill with 4 people in it and not fall apart!
The little car that could….drive uphill with 4 people in it and not fall apart!

Pina Palmera

 

We have been at Pina Palmera for a week now and the days fly by with many things happening – here or in different communities.

Pina Palmera main entrance
Pina Palmera main entrance

The teams at Pina have continued with their outreach work, increasing awareness of disability and helping families and people with disabilities  find solutions for integration in the community and  support from the local authorities.

Community work with children and their parents
Community work with children and their parents

They visit distant communities on a biweekly basis and  conduct their workshops and classes in a private location for all to see and ask questions if they want to.  Children without disabilities are present and learn to interact with their classmates or neighbours while having fun.

A lovely happy smile
A lovely happy smile

Additionally, the Pina Palmera group have also been asked to give workshops about violence. This is a huge step, since most of the time violence is not acknowledged, it is part of “normal life” ; most violent events are either borne in silence (familial violence) or simply covered up (public violence).

Workshop on violence
Workshop on violence

To have adults  (of both sexes)  sit together, look at and discuss pictures representing violence and actually condemn it,  as well as come up with solutions, is a huge step for the Pina  team and the community as well. The workshops are offered only to those requesting it (as everything that Pina does), They start with a presentation for the schoolchildren and then extend to their parents. Some communities are not even close to asking for a workshop, in others the topic of sexual abuse is met with dead silence .  Celli (the worker leading this workshop) is always optimistic and points out that: “We start with small waves, they spread, and then we get asked back, or go to a new place. That is how it works – and it works!”

The home visits in different communities are going on regularly usually at 2 week intervals,  sometimes a little longer. Our little oven on wheels - fits 6 people, 4 bags, 2 cushions...all in the front cabin!

Our little oven on wheels – fits 6 people, 4 bags, 2 cushions…all in the front cabin!

The current students at Pina (Swedish and Canadian) are trudging through the incredible heat and dust along the staff and volunteers. The team’s work consists of doing follow-up visits in schools with disabled children (blind or deaf) to talk to child and teacher about how integration in the school is happening and if the child is able to cope with the schoolwork. Afterwards, they visit the homes and talk to the parents. The goal is to make teachers and parents feel understood and supported, and have the children actually receive the help they are entitled to.

Follow up at home with mother and children
Follow up at home with mother and children

Again I am reminded of the importance of having access to and from a house or building – in so many places it is impossible for a disabled person to leave the house, never mind attend a school or just meet other people besides their immediate family.

Want to visit the people up there??
Want to visit the people up there??

If one adds to this the discrimination against the disabled, the lack of knowledge regarding how to help a deaf child (for example) and just the usual life stressors present in Mexico… ….well, I am just happy that people like those working in Pina Palmera exist!